Wednesday, 13 February 2008

Blog....

Its not about writing that people are obssessed with... Nobody wants to write for the heck of it... they wana prove their thoughts and present it so that they can leave their impression on atleast some minds out there...

Who said you need to be a writer for all this... You just need a good language so that people understand your point of presentation and do get the moral of it. People have this notion or rather lack of confidence that they cannot write well or rather there is a particular way to write and all... but there is nothing as such... If you see the way Agatha Christine and Sidney Sheldon presenting their versions, both are equally best but the way of presentation is completely opposite. Though I can't leave a book of Sidney Sheldon till I have completed reading each and every word, I will surely be sleeping cozily in me bed before I complete reading Agatha Christie's first chapter of any of her books...

This does not mean that any of them are good or bad, it means that every writer has his or her own kind of readership out there in the market. Its just that their collections should reach to the right kind of target audience. This is not like a school book chapter which is compulsory. It is voluntary to read.

Like we have a library at my place. My brother being titled towards being a rigorous learner, he usually manages to read self-help books and also motivational books whereas my selection can extend from fictions to management but though I have a great collection of all the leading authors int the self-help n so called stuff, I just cant manage to read them.

And in the similar way, I have seen other people doing the same. Everyone has their own choices and liberty to present their thoughts. Blog gives you freedom to present your thoughts, your ideation and your vision to an endless reach of audience who can give you a feedback which can help you to improve also come closer to your readers. Though this does not mean that books no longer have their importance... they still have and stand their importance so much as it always used to have or rather more in the form of saving the history.....

Books are your best friends they were the same when you read them and they are the same after years....

Monday, 11 February 2008

I did that ....

Cycle of Life!

I don't why this happens.... but God has really created this world to experience the pain and happiness in snippets.... The circle of life tells that sorrow is a part of life so that you can enjoy the happiness at its fullest...


Mythology tells us that what is destiny is bound to happen eventhough you do anything...


An expectant queen looked at panditji when he was predicting future to the King - "Your child will leave all the pleasures of the world and leave your materialistic things to gain inner happiness. This will happen when he witnesses sorrow in his life." A shocked King ordered to increase the height of the walls surrounding his kingdom and asked all mantris to take care that no sorrow is ever encountered by the child.


Years passed after King Siddharth was born and he got married too. He had a son but still he had never encountered sorrow. Once he decided to outside his Kingdom alone on the horse and suddenly saw various sorrows of life in the face of a beggar, an old man, a starving animal and a dying man. Death was something he was unkown to. Suddenly he saw a saint and asked him what was the reason behind all this sorrow in the world and he got one answer - "Materialistic things and expectations my child." That night King Siddharth left his wife, children and his kingdom in the search of wisdom and his soul whom today the whole world knows as Mahavir Bhagvan.


This tells us that no height of the wall can stop the approaching sorrows of life. Its only how you take it... Live every moment as it comes and do not treat sorrows as the end of the world, it may be the new beginning of life in the form of the search towards your soul.


God tests us during a few times and sees the fighting spirit in us and accordingly gives the pleasures to all his children. Haven't we heard that thing- God helps them, those who help themselves. Its jus not a saying but truth... that is why may be the King could see his future generation even though King Siddharth walked out after 30 Years in the form of his grandsons.
Innocence.... Everyone is innocent at heart when they are born.... It is put to test right from there... When your mom cuddles you, she cares for you but when a cousin aunt pulls your cheeks with her rough hands and says "He is such a cute boy!", you want to just tell her that you are a not a pressure ball that she is exercising on.....

Face Sketch

Face

Sunday, 10 February 2008

Common issues but nvr practise them!

Its not about what you are, its all about how you present yourself!

Image is something people build in their minds about others. It differs from person to person and company to company. But one thing plays a common role in all these things and thats how you build this image. A person living next door to you has an image about you due to your actions, ure language, speech and the way you present yourself whereas someone else like your colleague has a different image that is built due to your work and so on and so forth...

Communication in today's world is like a common thing which knowingly or unknowingly plays a great role. How? C this

We have Trisha coming from a city like Delhi to Mumbai coz she gets into a desired firm with a great package. She finds a pg house in Sion and starts living with a girl whose already living there. The other one is from Uttar Pradesh, pretty decent looking girl but she has taken a course in some college of mumbai.

From 7am to 10pm, travelling between Sion to CST, Trisha finds just no time for herself. Sunday is spent in washing the laundry to cleaning the mess of the whole week. Initial office days were spent in knowingly people around and creating a rapport with them. And then as working days increased, simultaneously work pressure did. Managing with a hectic life in Mumbai while being accustomed to the liesure life in Delhi was getting tougher day by day. Travelling long distance in packed trains and buses compared to rickshaws and clearing the household chores alone instead of mom at home in Delhi. Life started playing its hide and seek games by filling in the gaps through fights with the boyfriend due to long distance, home sickness, lack of communication with close friends and a life at unknown place... paying the price of high package and dreams was dawning on her. Like every other girl, she is not a cribber but had to be now that she couldn't handle it.

How can she solve all this mess... I am not looking for answers ... Its like today most people live...
Computers are best friends instead of books.

Day starts with sms instead of prayers.

You do not know the guy living next door but you know a guy in New york and what he does every single minute.

You do not know your family people well but know your friend's boy friends and thousands of through and through contacts and chat with them regularly

You remember all great days like anniversary and birthday and greet everyone once a year with love but disrespect your parents by yelling at them everyday.

Religion means not respecting humanity but materialistic words.

Celebrating and playing patriotic songs on 26th Jan and 15th Aug is enough rest days you can help in ruining it by giving and taking bribes.

All these things are repeatedly told to us and talked about hundreds of times but has anyone improved themselves?

Its not about just making and watching movies like Nayak, lagaan or Chak De, its about just actually practising it......... its high time ... stop watching K-serials and breaking the unity.... Start from yourself and make others realize it.......