Music.... In India, music has altogether a different influence more than any other place I guess....
The other day in the lecture, one of our professors were teaching us and he told us how music influences so much to an individual that your unconcious mind actually changes the direction of thoughts according to the kind of music being played in the background or so....
He proved it to us also... in the form that if the sad music is played unknowingly a person is tilted to make such a kind of conversation though it is purely unintentional.... This made me think... a few months back I used to read this particular story on the internet. Every 15th of the month, the writer used to post the next chapter. It was a tragic love story, pure fiction... but I loved it and while I was reading that i always used to play a particular song repeatedly throughout the time i used to read. Though the song not supposed to be that great or romantic, was quite a hit during those times. I remember that somehow now I have linked that song to the story so much that whenevr I hear that song being played somewhere, the whole tragic love story flashes in my mind... I have never remembered any story so vividly but i remember every detail of this story.
Music is also known to make you remember things more specifically..... it increases the concerntration power. That is it is said that students who study with the music being played in the background tend to remember things faster....
Music is if what can create our moods then in that case I guess we all should listen to collections which spread positve attitude around us... Thats why they play songs dedicated to God in the mornings and various kinds of positive feelings unlike resorting to some crying crap..... Its just one life - God has given everyone an equal share of happiness, love and sad phases according to what they deserve but what we can do in all this is, to decrease this pain or borning life (if at all u hav then) into a phase which makes you feel proud to have left a good past to remember.
I have heard of this one that though everything may leave you, you should never leave hope coz its one things that can bring all your desired things back...
Dunno why I am writing this.... one of my friends told me.... When two people of opposite sex meet even in men or animals, they show their love for each other for sometime in their own way and then if something goes wrong they then move to some other to show their love .... the process continues until they find the one with whom they click for a long time.... Wonder what would have happend if our ancestors had the same policy :P